Hong Kong–Cantopop superstar Sammi Cheng has once again affirmed that genuine connection transcends loss, maintaining a heartfelt ritual with the family of her late friend, former Face To Face member Jodi Ng (Wu Siu-fong). Two years after Ng’s death from cancer at age 54, Cheng continues to celebrate their enduring bond, recently meeting with Ng’s sisters, Kubi and Doris, to receive homemade festive treats—a tradition steeped in remembrance.
On Tuesday, Cheng documented the poignant encounter on her social media channels, sharing that while Ng has passed on, she left behind “a very special friendship” that connects Cheng with her sisters. The annual handover of meticulously prepared sticky rice cakes and pastries, crafted by Kubi, serves as a tangible expression of shared grief and enduring affection for the acclaimed singer.
A Legacy of Friendship
The connection between Cheng and Ng dated back decades, blossoming into a deep platonic relationship widely recognized within the entertainment industry. Ng, a member of the popular 1990s duo Face To Face, tragically succumbed to cancer in 2021. Following Ng’s passing, Cheng penned a deeply moving, lengthy tribute on social media, testifying to the profound impact Ng had on her life.
One of the most memorable public symbols of their camaraderie came in 2019, when Ng, despite her physical limitations following a debilitating accident years prior, courageously joined Cheng on stage as a special guest during one night of Cheng’s concert series. This moment epitomized the steadfast support that characterized their relationship, showcasing Ng’s resilience and Cheng’s loyalty.
True Love Never Dies
Meeting the sisters, Kubi and Doris, has become a comforting constant for Cheng, particularly during festive holiday periods. Cheng detailed the warmth of their interaction this week, describing a lengthy conversation held in the car during the exchange of baked goods.
“True love never dies; it stays in our heart,” Cheng wrote, reflecting on their brief but powerful meeting. “We don’t see each other often, but the love remains. It is especially heartwarming.”
The annual exchange of homemade cakes—a staple of traditional Lunar New Year celebrations in Chinese culture (though the specific date of the recent meeting was mid-April)—has evolved beyond a simple gesture. It is now a powerful vessel of memory, merging the joy of the holidays with a profound sense of honoring Ng. The act of sharing food and conversation keeps Ng’s spirit present in their lives.
“Love is eternal, when the beloved is you,” Cheng concluded her tribute, publicly thanking Kubi and Doris for their continued connection, signaling her eagerness to immediately enjoy the freshly delivered pastries.
The Power of Shared Memory
Cheng’s ongoing commitment to Ng’s family highlights a critical aspect of navigating grief: staying connected to the deceased’s loved ones. This practice not only provides mutual comfort to the family and friends but also actively preserves the memory and legacy of the person lost.
Experts often note that creating new rituals or sustaining old traditions can be incredibly therapeutic for managing long-term grief. For Sammi Cheng, sharing laughter and stories with Kubi and Doris over homemade delicacies ensures Jodi Ng’s influence remains a living, evolving force, proving that while a physical presence may fade, the tapestry woven by deep friendship endures.
This enduring public display of loyalty and affection offers a powerful message to fans: that true friendship requires continuous effort, even—and especially—after a friend is gone. Her actions underscore the importance of supporting families long after the initial crisis of loss subsides.
