Hong Kong – Veteran actress Kam Yin-ling, 71, has survived two bouts of cancer and lives with a heart stent, yet she says each day is a gift. In a candid interview on HOY TV’s death-education program “About Happy Death 2,” she revealed she once contemplated suicide after her first heartbreak, and shared how she now focuses on gratitude rather than fear.
Kam, a beloved figure in Hong Kong cinema, spoke alongside Cheng Ka-shing, chairman of the Pure Land Charity Foundation’s project management committee, and actor Ao Ka-nin. The conversation delved into mortality, emotional resilience, and the importance of living fully in the present.
Confronting the Past
During the emotional taping, Kam recalled her younger self struggling with heartbreak. “I seriously considered suicide after my first breakup,” she said. “At that time, I thought it was a huge deal. I didn’t know how to handle emotions. Many of my life experiences were learned through trial and error.”
Now 71 and uncertain how many years remain, Kam insists she is not pessimistic. “I don’t know what the future holds, so I might as well live each day well,” she said. “Every morning, I look in the mirror and tell myself, ‘You’re 71 — that’s great, and you still look good.’ People say tomorrow will be better, but I believe if you live today well, tomorrow will naturally follow.”
She acknowledged that she is not a saint. “I still get angry and lose my temper,” she added. “But once I let it out, I move on.”
A Lesson in Cherishing Life
Cheng, who contributed frequent insightful remarks during the program, emphasized the importance of appreciating blessings. “The key is to recognize when you are fortunate,” he said. “Don’t wait until you’re sick or in adversity to realize you had blessings. Always care for those around you — even people far away. When you maintain a caring attitude, you see things more peacefully and clearly, and you feel much better yourself.”
Ao Ka-nin noted that he found Cheng’s advice deeply enlightening.
Broader Context: Talking About Death and Mental Health
“About Happy Death 2” is part of a growing trend in Hong Kong media to normalize conversations about death, dying, and mental well-being. Kam’s willingness to share her vulnerability — including past suicidal ideation — reflects a cultural shift toward openness, especially among older generations who often avoid such topics.
For anyone in distress, professional help is available. Below are helplines offering confidential support:
- Mental Health Support Hotline ( “Emotion Pass” ): 18111
- Samaritan Befrienders Hong Kong: 2389 2222
- Social Welfare Department: 2343 2255
- Caritas Family Crisis Support Centre: 18288
- Life Hotline: 8100 8012
Kam’s story serves as a reminder that resilience and gratitude can coexist with pain. Her message: Live today fully, and tomorrow will take care of itself.
