Singer Terence Lam Lands Top Honors, Prioritizes Rest Over Public Romance

Hong Kong singer-songwriter Terence Lam secured two of the night’s paramount accolades at the prestigious 2025 Commercial Radio Ultimate Song Chart Awards ceremony yesterday, affirming his status as a leading figure in Cantopop. Lam was recognized with the coveted Composer Award and the Gold Medal for Singer-Songwriter, though he did not clinch a Song of the Year prize.

Speaking after the event, the artist expressed deep personal satisfaction with his wins, noting that while public awards are significant, his own internal validation remains paramount. “I have my own favorite song,” Lam stated, highlighting his rendition of “Whenever Changes Occur” by the veteran singer Rosanne Si, as the most meaningful piece from the previous year.

Low-Key Celebration Reflects Need for Rest

In line with his notoriously reserved public persona, Lam indicated that his celebration plans would be notably subdued. Forget lavish parties or extended international vacations; the musician is prioritizing simple pleasures and much-needed decompression.

His idea of indulgence involves modest culinary treats. “Perhaps just some high-calorie or deep-fried food,” he admitted. Lam emphasized that genuine happiness for him is found at home.

“Eating, sleeping, and just relaxing are the best forms of entertainment for me,” Lam explained. He referenced severe insomnia and persistent tension experienced while mounting his recent concert series, underscoring his current need for a break.

Praise for Jeffrey Ngai’s Acting and Awards Success

Lam also took the opportunity to commend his close friend, singer and actor Jeffrey Ngai, who had a successful night, winning third place in the “Ultimate 10” professional recommendation awards for his track “The White Tuxedo.”

Lam was effusive in his praise for Ngai’s talent, specifically citing his lead role in the recent film “Killer #4.”

“He’s always been a smart guy,” Lam remarked. “I watched Killer #4 and truly complimented his performance. It’s hard to pull off being so cool and handsome throughout the entire film while delivering action sequences and internal drama.” Lam humorously added that maintaining such composure throughout the project was something he personally would struggle to achieve.

Privacy Over Public Displays of Affection

When questions inevitably turned to matters of the heart, specifically whether he envied Ngai’s highly public on-stage acknowledgment of his girlfriend, Lam drew a firm line regarding his own commitment to privacy.

“Not at all,” Lam responded firmly, recognizing their fundamentally different approaches to public life. “We are two different types of people. I am very low-key; I might not even announce my marriage.”

The songwriter jokingly avoided a direct answer about a potential secret wedding, instead focusing on his current single status. He lightheartedly speculated that his extended period without a partner might stem from his excessive privacy, suggesting he needed to learn from Ngai on how to navigate socializing and dating.

When pressed for his ideal partner’s attributes, Lam offered a cryptic yet charming response: “Someone like Jeffrey’s girlfriend,” before clarifying with a smile, “Is that difficult to imagine? I mean beautiful.”

Lam’s dual victories highlight his unwavering influence within the industry, solidifying his status as a leading voice in modern Cantopop while setting a refreshing precedent for prioritizing mental health and personal boundaries over the relentless demands of celebrity culture. His commitment to quality music, coupled with his distinctly private life, continues to fascinate and resonate with audiences across the region.